LOVE... four
letters, but mean a world to the world.
Felt by almost all.... everything is a wilderness without love in it.
Felt by almost all.... everything is a wilderness without love in it.
All seek out that special person in their life - their 'soulmate'. When a
child breaks the shackles of dependency and starts discovering his
individuality in the teenage, the concept of soul mate starts taking shape
inside his mind. As he steps into
adulthood this longing gets enhanced.
To find the soulmate, some choose random methods, some resort to the traditional methods of match making. Some give up after dreaming for some time saying, “Utter wastage of time. Life has many other important things to do.” Some stick to it, but compromise with lesser available alternatives, thinking, “Everybody needs to adjust. Nothing is perfect.” Some still go ahead, keep crossing possibilities, seeking the one they have never seen, but cannot stop thinking about. Not a single day passes without waiting for ‘the one’, ‘their soulmate.’ And with time the need for that perfect one keeps growing. They bear pangs of emotional voids, feeling of letting out, melting somewhere, and sometimes miss a shoulder to cry on or a hand to give them strength to move ahead when life is all black. They try to compensate it with other possibilities such as friends or relatives, but satisfaction never comes. That need to seek somebody never goes away. It keeps on growing and sometime to an extent where it starts interfering with their career goals. It feels as if nothing is possible without that unknown soul mate around. As if walking even an inch is impossible without him. They grope for him in their dreams, in their darker moments; longing to see him, feel him. Sometime urgency becomes so overwhelming that they start looking for the soul mate in a mere 'possibility’. Even after knowing that he is not the one, they try to superimposing their soul mate’s image on him. But against the law of the nature, mere superimposition can never turn a possibility into reality. In the process of realizing this, they again bear undeserved pains as a result of the treacherous superimposition.
To find the soulmate, some choose random methods, some resort to the traditional methods of match making. Some give up after dreaming for some time saying, “Utter wastage of time. Life has many other important things to do.” Some stick to it, but compromise with lesser available alternatives, thinking, “Everybody needs to adjust. Nothing is perfect.” Some still go ahead, keep crossing possibilities, seeking the one they have never seen, but cannot stop thinking about. Not a single day passes without waiting for ‘the one’, ‘their soulmate.’ And with time the need for that perfect one keeps growing. They bear pangs of emotional voids, feeling of letting out, melting somewhere, and sometimes miss a shoulder to cry on or a hand to give them strength to move ahead when life is all black. They try to compensate it with other possibilities such as friends or relatives, but satisfaction never comes. That need to seek somebody never goes away. It keeps on growing and sometime to an extent where it starts interfering with their career goals. It feels as if nothing is possible without that unknown soul mate around. As if walking even an inch is impossible without him. They grope for him in their dreams, in their darker moments; longing to see him, feel him. Sometime urgency becomes so overwhelming that they start looking for the soul mate in a mere 'possibility’. Even after knowing that he is not the one, they try to superimposing their soul mate’s image on him. But against the law of the nature, mere superimposition can never turn a possibility into reality. In the process of realizing this, they again bear undeserved pains as a result of the treacherous superimposition.
Some loose
the battle here. Never go beyond this. Some muster up strength, decide to risk
it again and move ahead- in search of the ‘perfect one’. Days pass by and
convert to years. They realize the cream of life was spent searching the
perfect one, rather than getting spent with the perfect one. Still deciding not
to compromise, and not losing hope they move ahead. By this time, the
need becomes bearable. The pangs of the absence go only to a certain level
inside and stop. And one day, when tired of indulging in this hopeless hope, they try to divert their mind somewhere
else, somebody knocks on the door. And lo! He turns out to be someone better
than expected! It enters their life, and becomes a part of them as if they had never lived alone!
LOVE is
worth a wait. So all you believers in a
perfect soul mate, never settle for a
‘possibility’ when your ‘perfect match’ is waiting for you somewhere. It is just a matter of time when you meet each
other. Start eyeing your doors, and may be you can hear that knock now! Even if not,
it is better to keep the doors open rather than letting them melt under the
impatience of the need to belong.
Remember: ‘Reality’
never comes before ‘possibility’ as ‘possibility’ creates ‘reality’.